You are not alone in this, even when it feels like one of the most isolating griefs there is.
If you have lost a pregnancy, or are walking alongside someone who has, you are not alone in this even though it can feel like one of the most isolating griefs there is. Pregnancy loss happens more often than is acknowledged, and most of it happens in silence. Because there is rarely language for it. Because others do not know how to hold it. Because the world keeps moving forward when something inside you cannot.
This page is for anyone who is here. There is no need to read it all if it is not the right time. Take what you need.
Three sessions. To honor, not to fix.
Loss Coaching is a small, focused offering. A free initial conversation to begin, and a three-session package if it feels right to continue. Held 1:1, by video. The work is not a program or a process to move through grief on a timeline. Some grief does not have a timeline. Some grief asks for room rather than resolution.
What I can offer is presence and the experience of working alongside women and couples through reproductive loss since 2011. I have also walked this path myself, and although that does not make me an expert in your loss, it does mean I am unlikely to look away from what you bring.
We may talk about what you are carrying. We may talk about what no one else seems to want to hear. If you are a couple, we may talk about how grief is moving differently between you. There is no required path. We meet where you are.
Who Loss Coaching might serve.
If you have experienced early or later pregnancy loss, recurrent loss, or termination for medical reasons, and have not found space elsewhere to be heard the way you need. If you are a couple grieving differently and finding the gap between you painful. If the people around you have stopped asking, and you are still carrying it.
- Early pregnancy lossIncluding loss before twelve weeks that few have known about.
- Later pregnancy lossIncluding stillbirth and neonatal loss.
- Recurrent lossThe particular weight of more than one.
- Termination for medical reasonsGrief that often has no language.
- Grieving differentlyCouples in the gap that loss can open.
One form of support. It works alongside therapy, peer support, time, and whatever else you are doing. It does not replace any of those.
I have sat with a couple in the days after a loss when there were no words for what had happened. We did not fill the silence. We let it be the room.
- A conversation first
- Free initial conversationBefore booking the three-session package, there is a free initial conversation. A chance to meet, to discuss what you are carrying, and to see whether this work is right for you. No obligation.
- Sessions
- Three sessions, 60 minutes eachHeld by video.
- Investment
- Shared in our first conversationFor the three-session package, following the free initial conversation.
- Pacing
- As you need itBack-to-back over a few weeks, or spread across months. There is no required rhythm.
- Together
- Individuals or couplesIf you are a couple grieving differently, the sessions can hold both of you.
If something in this resonates, I am here. There is no rush, and there is no pressure. The work waits for when you are ready.
If you would like to read more first, the Heart-Led Healing pillar describes the way I work with what does not have a fix. Read the pillar.
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