Just sit and dangle with your legs

Just sit and dangle with your legs

Writing seems to have become an evening habit. I thought it wouldn't be like this...

Today I thought I'd spin on cozy moments and how important they are. With three kids in the family, it's hard to find time to spend with just one child at a time, but we try to make it happen as often as possible. Tonight, our son opted out of an activity because he just wanted to sit on the dock and dangle with his legs. I thought it sounded great and we went down to the dock. Realized we hadn't been there together since the quickly passing swimming season.

As we sat there, it was again a cozy chat. It's like using a different part of the brain, the part that just is. At first it was just nice to sit down and watch the water, but after a while we both notice the little fish playing and jumping just below our legs. They are also jumping around further out in Lake Mälaren and the water is sort of glistening in different places. Studying these little fish in detail was so cozy and so relaxing. To just stop and switch off for a while. That's what a meditation can look like! It's not just about sitting with your back stretched out on a yoga mat and trying to focus on your breathing. It's about something much bigger. It's about a connection with something so much bigger than yourself.

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Thought of the day:

What happens inside you when you let go off the everyday demands for a while? How do you make it happen?

This article is part of The 50 day challenge, where I challenge myself to write an article a day for 50 days! The articles can be about anything, short or long, but I can't miss a single day!

With love, Johanna.

Doula, Functional Medicine Health Coach, and Mind-Body Practitioner. Mother of three. Founder of Life By Love, a family-focused health practice supporting women and families through fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, and family life.

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